Some of you may or may not I am going through a pretty messy divorce. ( do they come any other way).

Sometimes Petes was very friendly.

us women arnt always the b***h in the divorce.

I think wearing your number 2 t-shirt when collecting the children is the best idea 'class'

As for getting revenge - is you not being married to her punishment enough

in all seriousness i went though a separation myself for some time but luckily for me we managed to reconcile.
Bravado aside i know how difficult it is and i have great respect for you A1 that your sense of humour still survives.
The only thing i can think of that women hold so dear is their best shoes,dresses and make up.So walking around Belle Vue pits on a rainy day in all three and sending her a photo would certainly raise the hackles.....Although..i think somehow,this could prove counter productive in the long run
sincerely, all the best
lofty